tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post2971907349868726155..comments2023-11-02T09:19:18.174+00:00Comments on Mambam: Bad DayMichaelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17745796890136055707noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post-3355180853309397552011-01-07T01:22:40.089+00:002011-01-07T01:22:40.089+00:00I have just returned from vacation. I am very sor...I have just returned from vacation. I am very sorry for your loss. I know she meant a lot to you.drewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11802343109885478260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post-49920693011779553802011-01-06T22:26:00.705+00:002011-01-06T22:26:00.705+00:00Thanks for all your kind commentsThanks for all your kind commentsMichaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17745796890136055707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post-74623957215935919502011-01-06T01:32:59.135+00:002011-01-06T01:32:59.135+00:00hugs to you... funerals suck.. ive been to so many...hugs to you... funerals suck.. ive been to so many that i just get all quiet and numb now... i never know what to say either...<br /><br />the great memories of your friend rachel will be what you keep going forward.. the details of the funeral will fade as time passes...<br /><br /> im sorry for your loss...<br /><br />~ peace....davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03804547545724265463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post-35941033300439209812011-01-05T22:43:37.139+00:002011-01-05T22:43:37.139+00:00(I'm going to have this played at my funeral)
...(I'm going to have this played at my funeral)<br /><br />Sometimes I get the feeling she's watching over me.<br />And other times I feel like I should go.<br />And through it all, the rise and fall, the bodies in the streets.<br />And when you're gone we want you all to know.<br /><br />We'll carry on,<br />We'll carry on<br />And though you're dead and gone believe me<br />Your memory will carry on<br />We'll carry on<br />And in my heart I can't contain it<br />The anthem won't explain it.<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kDWgsQhbaqUPSRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03627510673779068642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post-45442773604405122922011-01-05T22:36:07.023+00:002011-01-05T22:36:07.023+00:00Sadness for you and your friend.
Hugs.Sadness for you and your friend.<br />Hugs.PSRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03627510673779068642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post-85686234541247837142011-01-05T21:05:32.016+00:002011-01-05T21:05:32.016+00:00I think it takes time and experience to get comfor...I think it takes time and experience to get comfortable with funerals. I think maybe we make ourselves too stiff and solemn until we learn a couple of things. One is that we don't have to say just the right words to lift the bereaved out of their grief. All we have to say is to offer condolences, and then, if possible, something about what we liked/will remember about the decesaed. The other thing is that we don't have to be all stiff and solemn with the others at the funeral. We can talk and interact naturally with people we know, sharing thoughts and memories, and even discussing other mutual interests with people we see only occasionally. <br />it was years before I realized this.<br /><br />Obviously, the closer you were to the one who died, the stronger your emotions will be, and it may not be possible to have a normal conversation.<br /><br />That's an interesting remark about cremation and the lack of a grave to visit. The Catholic Church considers the ashes to be as much human remains as a body. (True, the decomposition has been hastened, but it's still what is left of the material side of the person.) And so the Church urges that the ashes be interred or placed in a vault or something of the sort and be given a committal service comparable to that of a body. Scattering them to the winds or in the garden or keeping them on the mantel is discouraged. Obviously, the survivors do what they will, but you are right that when the ashes are not handled similarly to other human remains, it does deprive people of the focus which a gravesite provides.<br /><br />Well, anyway, you were good to go to it.<br /><br />*hugs*naturgesetzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15268507379933286863noreply@blogger.com