tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post3428874146193389294..comments2023-11-02T09:19:18.174+00:00Comments on Mambam: Quick Update to the updateMichaelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17745796890136055707noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post-42035022263245779512010-07-20T02:57:48.430+01:002010-07-20T02:57:48.430+01:00First, I'm really glad to see you blogging aga...First, I'm really glad to see you blogging again.<br /><br />Second, I agree with Paul about him being embarrassed. I know from personal experience how easy it is to get in over your head on credit card debt. I always paid well over the monthly minimum, but I'm such a procrastinator that I often paid late, which cost me fees and very high interest rates. Finally it got to a point where I accepted an offer from an organization which negotiated a partial write-off of the balances and a manageable monthly payment toward the remainder, with the cards suspended. It still would hace taken years to pay off. When my mum died, the first thing I did with my share of her money was to pay off the balances. Now I always pay in full every month. But while all this was happening, it was not something I'd have felt like talking about with anyone.<br /><br />Daniel needs you as a friend as much as ever. Maybe you can tell him, "I wish you had told me. Not that I could have paid your debts, but maybe I could have given you some good advice and helped you find ways to cut expenses." I think I understand how you feel, but right now, I'd go easy on him and be the friend you always have been.<br /><br />I'm glad the other guy recovered, and I hope the police don't make a big case of it.<br /><br />I've missed hearing about your doings. If you don't have time to post every day, I hope you'll give us something every now and then to let us know how you're doing.naturgesetzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15268507379933286863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post-27812136648267888482010-07-20T00:33:48.942+01:002010-07-20T00:33:48.942+01:00Think of it this way. What if Daniel was hitting ...Think of it this way. What if Daniel was hitting you up for cash for his debts. He didn't and he is going to have to pay for his mistakes. We are all not perfect like you Michael ;- ) !! Haven't had a good jab at you in quite a while. Missed you.. looking forward to more posting!! Thats an order!!drewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11802343109885478260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post-4965401447966795332010-07-19T23:42:42.293+01:002010-07-19T23:42:42.293+01:00It's good to see you blogging again Michael. D...It's good to see you blogging again Michael. Don't feel too bad about Daniel. It's quite likely that once he found he was in financial trouble he was too ashamed/embarrassed to admit to it. <br />It's not that he thinks any less of you, more that he was worried you'd think less of him.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11226621508507518160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-269747357135751360.post-39346122219498827682010-07-19T23:20:22.194+01:002010-07-19T23:20:22.194+01:00I was just wondering what happened to u.....sounds...I was just wondering what happened to u.....sounds like alot.<br /><br />I had a friend who i found out had hidden a side to himself...we are still friends, but its not the same.<br /><br />hope things go better for you, and your around blog world more...<br /><br />hugsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com