Saturday, 18 June 2011

Dreaming of a German Lad

Went out last night to show of my tan. Best make the most of it because the weather is so shit in this country i imagine it'll be gone by the end of next week. No wonder Brits are so white.

Like a pillock i dressed in full Tshirt mode and spent most of my time running from one watering hole to another trying not to get wet or freeze my bollocks off. Daniel didn't come. He's totally skint and couldn't borrow any more, in fact the down side of borrowing money is that you can't be seen to have a good time until it's paid back.
The one question everyone asked was 'did you get off with anyone?' and the answer, sadly, was no.  It was only 7 days and two of them were traveling to and from the UK. Even when i did see someone i fancied i dare not make an approach. Funny that, isn't it?. It's ok when you are at home, but miles away in a foreign land tends to put you back to square one. I almost spent an entire week back in the closet it was that bad.

I'm reminded of when i moved from Oldham to here. I had to start all over again with new friends and letting them know i'm gay. You imagine that coming out is something you only have to do once. But in reality you spend your life coming out. Maybe if i was camp it would be different. People would just know and assume i am. But i'm forever being asked if i have a girlfriend or am married. and even though i say so myself, both Daniel and I could have shagged at least twi girls who staying at our hotel if we really wanted to. There was lots of smiles and hello's coming from their direction every time we passed them by.

Why couldn't it have been like that with the boys ?. That German lad is still in my brain and i've had many a good wank thinking about him. The stuff we've done together i could not repeat. LOL, sometimes he was all lovely and kissy, the next minute he was a bit of an animal. Ha!. If only. He's probably got a girlfriend or married or something.
Anyway i'm rambling now.

Again, tonight no one got to see my white bits. I didn't get so much as a kiss, and i am back home already at 12.11 am. But it's fathers day tomorrow and i'm going to my parents for the day so an early night will be a good thing.

I've written in the past about the way i feel when i have a boyfriend. They seem to stifle me and i long to be single again. Now i've had a bit to much singledom and want to get back to boyfriend material again.
Or maybe that's just the drink talking. Time to go to bed me things.

7 comments:

Cute Dead Boys said...

I would be happy to see your white bits.......

naturgesetz said...

I want to see the tanned bits.

Do you find that you can decide, "boyfriend time," and you get one fairly promptly, or is it a matter of having to be patient until someone suitable shows up?

I'm not surprised that a couple of fit lads would turn the heads of the young ladies.

Anonymous said...

Ooh Mambam's got white bits, I reckon you should show us!

david said...

closet? what closet?
when i travel, i tend to seek out the gayborhood in whatever locale i happen to have travelled to...
whats the fucking point of traveling any significant distance, staying for days, seeing the sights, eating the foods, and not shagging the boyz?

~ cheers...

Mind Of Mine said...

Sometimes we need to get into a relationship just to reconfirm the fact sometimes it is better to be single.

drew said...

You will figure it out. You are a young man and I can see where being tied down is hard. I think as you age you will be more interested in someone to come home to. Just my take.. You have to put yourself in play if you want to meet someone. Good luck!!

B. said...

Hehe, I was smiling all the time while reading this and especially with the part "coming out" and stuff. You are living in more or less non-homophobic country and I'm living in homophobic country (which is similar to Greece) so for you it's hard to get by as a "open" gay, but believe me, it's not that hard, you can easily tell who is gay or not and how homophobic-country gays works :D

And I love Greece because of that, you don't need to be scared or anything, you were with a friend (as I noticed) and if your friend knows, it's easy for go around and find someone :P